Emotional affair: two words put together that are highly toxic to a marriage and a loving wife's worst nightmare.
What is it? It is an affair where
the two people involved please each other's feelings, they seem to soothe each
other's emotional emptiness. They have not committed any sexual or physical
acts (at least not yet). Eurodate.com
Reviews The focus is feelings. They claim they are bored and empty
in their lives and the other person is a breath of fresh air which gives their
lives a new meaning.
Neither is exposed to any possible
real life scenarios or unattractive areas: no bills, no screaming kids, no
dirty bathrooms, no car repairs, no complaining, and so on. It's all about the
pretty things, no reality here. It is adolescent in nature. They act more like
teenagers than grown-ups.
This is not a full-fledged affair,
but regardless it is an affair and the feelings your cheating spouse
experiences are strong Eurodate and may
not go away easily.
Why You Need To Know What an
Emotional Affair Is
How the affair started is another
subject all together. The focus here is to understand the cheater's mindset of
the emotional affair and to know what you are up against. Let's first look at
some of the warning signs that indicate he or she could be involved in one.
Activities of an Emotional Affair
Long romantic text or IM
conversations
Quick, sneaky "I miss
you" phone conversations
Cute, adolescent-like love letters
folded into neat little squares
Selfie pics with short, romantic
love messages
Long emails discussing how empty
their life is and how their new lover fills them with joy
Quick escapes out of the house to
meet up
So let's say you catch them taking
part in some of the above activities. What does it mean? Why are they cheating
to begin with?
How It Feels to Be in an Emotional
Affair
From experience I can tell you it
feels great! Eurodate.com It makes
you feel like you have come back to life from the dead.
Not what you expected to hear,
right? Please read on.
Life is hard, marriage isn't easy,
and as you know you will get bored at times, you will envision yourself stuck
in a long, repetitive routine of getting up, going to work, coming home then
going to bed. At times you do not feel appreciated, you get tired of fighting,
your wife's once sparkling eyes and enlightening smile begin to look no
different than your sister's. The drive to the office seems like a slow walk to
a prison cell and the nights are an evil reminder that the next uninspiring day
is about to begin.
Anyone knows that life has ebbs and
flows. There will be ups and downs, there's no way to avoid it.
Enter the mistress of an emotional
affair.
Another woman can seem like the
answer he didn't know he was looking for. He felt bad and now she makes him
feel good. Forget about what the future holds, she makes me feel good right
now.
A Cheater's Mindset in an Emotional
Affair
"Ah, finally someone that gets
me."
"I can't be without her. She
makes me so alive."
He begins to picture what it would
be like sexually with her.
She relieves him of any ill
feelings.
She can do no wrong.
She doesn't seem like a normal
person, she can do no wrong.
Her imperfections are perfections.
At the moment he doesn't even
notice other women, because he has found "the one".
She is the angel sent down from
heaven to save him.
What He Can't See Yet Or Just
Doesn't Want to Face
I couldn't see it at first when I
cheated in my first marriage, but these were just feelings of euphoria. They
fulfill that temporary emptiness. I guess you could say they are similar to a
drug or alcohol. They make bad feelings go away temporarily.
I wish I had asked myself what the
end of the road looked like. Truthfully in the end as a cheater you will not be
proud of being involved with someone else when either you are married or they
are.
Was I really going to want to tell
others the truth how we met? If my mistress and I got together how would I deal
with the inevitable real world scenarios that would come up later? Would I need
yet another woman to help me escape again?
Thank God I came to my senses once
and for all and realized that an affair is a dead end road.
Emotional Affair and Infatuation
It's easy to get confused when your
heart is on the line, when you feel like you are on top of the world and an
attractive woman approves of you. It's easy to want to experience Hollywood
love, but any woman can hang around while the going is good. There are many
pretty women and every woman wants to feel good too.
So the temptation to ride that
emotional rush will always be there. Stated simply an emotional affair is
simply an infatuation with being involved with someone that makes you feel good
and feeling good about pleasing them too.
Infatuation does not last though.
There would always be another beautiful woman, another woman that just
"gets me" and another woman that is a good listener.
So can your relationship be saved
if your man is involved in an emotional affair?
Yes, I believe so, but only if true
love exists between the two of you.
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